We reported a young girl who began to receive hemodialysis due to IgA nephropathy. Our nursing experience focus on her and her parents’ anxiety and lack of caring cognition due to rapidly progressive disease. During our nursing period from June 15th to July 10th, 2020, we used the “Gordon 11 Function Health Patterns” to collect data by direct care, interviews, physical examination and multi-disciplinary discussion. We found that our case had health problems including nutritional imbalance, anxiety and caregiver role strain. Furthermore, we established a trusting relationship by accompany, listening and building trust with her family. We used diet diaries to create individualized menu, used interdisciplinary team meetings to improve nutritional imbalances, and used comic books and health management tools to improve self-care skills and reduce anxiety. We empathized with parents’ psychological pressure, discussed the distribution of care work, provided respite care, reduced care load, taught her self-health management and then achieved the health management model of parent-child shared responsibility. In response to the increase in the population of vegetarian, we designed a "vegetarian menu for dialysis" with our dietitian. Therefore, the patients could maintain their own dietary preference to increase the adaptability to diseases. We took this nursing experience as a reference for the care of such patients in the future.