青少年親密關係經驗之研究：從戀愛萌芽到分手

The Study of Adolescent Intimate Relationship Experiences: From the Blossoming of Love to Breakup

隨著生理的成熟，青少年對兩性充滿好奇與幻想，且嚮往青澀的戀愛世界。愛情與浪漫是青少年共同的興趣，透過親密關係的建立可以幫助青少年有機會練習如何處理與另一個人的關係與學習成長好好處理分手議題。本研究目的是探討青少年親密關係各階段（初始、維持以及結束）的發展內涵。本研究以滾雪球抽樣選取三位具備親密關係經驗的青少年進行半結構式訪談，以持續比較法進行分析。研究結果顯示：（1）受訪者進入親密關係初始階段的經驗，包含主觀認知（內外在條件評估）、家庭環境、追求行為及動機；（2）受訪者進入親密關係維持階段的經驗內涵，相處的生活模式、熱戀期界定、思考互補、思考問題方式、價值觀、朋友交集以及感情衝突到心境轉變；（3）受訪者進入親密關係結束階段的經驗內涵，包含分手前事件原因、心理調適以及從親密關係中學會成長。

As adolescents mature physically, they become curious about and fascinated by romantic relationships, yearning for the experience of youthful love. Love and romance are common interests among teenagers, and forming intimate relationships provides opportunities to practice handling interpersonal dynamics, personal growth, and navigating breakup challenges. This study aims to explore the developmental aspects of adolescent intimate relationships across three stages: initiation, maintenance, and termination. Using a snowball sampling method, three adolescents with experience in intimate relationships were selected for semi-structured interviews, analyzed using a constant comparative method. Key findings include: (1) Experiences in the initiation stage involve subjective perceptions (internal and external evaluations), family environment, pursuit behaviors, and motivations; (2) Experiences in the maintenance stage cover interaction patterns, the honeymoon phase, complementary thinking, problem-solving approaches, shared values, friend networks, emotional conflicts, and mood changes; (3) Experiences in the termination stage involve causes of pre-breakup events, psychological adjustment, and lessons learned for personal growth from the relationship.