衝突之下，原來有愛——運用EFFT於青少年之親子會談

There is love behind the conflict–Teenager's child- parent counseling by Emotional Focused Family Therapy

Emotional Focused Family therapy (EFFT) used the strategies which based on Emotional Focused Therapy Theory on dealing with important family issues as child-parent conflict. With an attachment lens, EFFT therapists see the conflict and conduct behaviors of teenagers as their needs of developing autonomy and keep good attachment and emotion connect with their parents are imbalance.If families interact with the teenager by the way of blaming or setting limitation, it grows into a negative interaction cycle between families and the teenager. The therapeutic goals are set up to stop the negative interaction cycle, reduce conflict situation, rebuild safety attachment relationship and positive emotion connect. These changes after treatment will help parents and teenagers can make good use of their own resources and the safety attachment base to cope their developmental tasks and the changes of family structures. This article aims to introduce EFFT of theory and therapy mode. Cases conceptualization echoes on this mode of treatment, and to share ideas practical use, The experiences of using EFFT can indeed reduce the strength of the parent-child conflict, and to help each other understand their desire and anticipation in the parent-child relationship, and then adjust the parent-child interaction to meet the needs of attachment. We hope that through this article can provide practitioners different views and strategy to chose when facing of the family.