This article is about the nursing experience of a 69-year-old hemodialysis patient who was facing widowhood. The nursing period is from February 24th to May 30th, 2020. Assessment by Gordon’s 11 health functional patterns, the author collects information through talks, listening, physical evaluation and clinical care and make sure the main health problems of this patient as grief, sleep pattern disorders and ineffective health maintenance. I try to apply the Worden grief counselling model and works with family members to help this patient expressing her feelings and finding a new motivation for life. During this process, I apply adjuvant therapies, such as aromatherapy, foot bath with warm water and lifestyle adjustment to improve sleep quality. In addition of this, depending on her cognition and attitude of hyperphosphatemia I set up an individual care plan with family members and try to remind and correct her self-care behavior, and promot blood phosphorus control within the normal range of 2.5-5.5 mg/dl. I look forward to this nursing experience can provide reference for future clinical hemodialysis nursing care.