Life is always in conflict with itself. This makes people want to explore the true value of their own existence, and moving in this direction will lead to the exploration of the essence of existence –spirituality. The process of exploring spirituality is the counseling process of self-spiritual healing. The main point of this study is to inquire how to deal with anxiety of life. From the perspectives of quantum science, and psychological perspectives, it is found that life issues are not only based on this life, but also influenced by the past lives. The Gestalt school in psychotherapy refers to the personality of peeling onions, which can be described as exploring the psychological issues into soul issues gradually. In sum, the way to solve the problem of being stuck in the phenomenon of life is to learn self-awareness, go through and attain Epiphany–“The essence of life is emptiness.” Mind can affect everything, and a change of mind can transform a life phenomenon. Spiritual counselling is to lead people to view their entire soul context, and sincerely complete four sayings –apology, goodbye, thank you and love. Understanding life is the journey to achieve spirituality. Learn to live in the present moment. This study may provide a reference for the definition of spiritual counselling in the local context.