護親護面型毆妻男性個案多元自我衝突調整 理論與介入方案研究

A Case Study of the Multi-Selves Conflicts Coordination Theory and Its Intervention Program to a Male Batterer Who Values the Chinese Face and Family

本文分析一位毆妻男性個案「金」，如何藉由多元自我衝突調整方案的協助，達成多元自我平衡及婚姻 和諧。研究者奠基於楊國樞華人自我四元論，發展出多元自我衝突調整理論，認為多元自我間的衝突會 導致個人內心困擾與婚姻衝突。從治療過程顯示個案金的「個人、家庭、社會」三元自我，極端凌駕在 「關係自我」之上時，可能是導致婚姻衝突與暴力的原因。本文並同時延伸陳秉華人我關係協調諮商模 式成為本介入方案，協助金調降強勢自我同時也調升弱勢自我的需求。研究採取質性個案研究方法，分 析10次團體歷程、2次事後個別訪談錄影，以及1次追縱訪談錄音逐字稿。研究結果顯示：金覺察不同關 係角色所引發的多元自我間衝突，透過調降其「個人、家庭、社會」我需求，調升其關係我需求，增加 對妻的同理心。多元自我順序由原來的家庭我、個人我、社會我、關係我，逐漸轉變為關係我、家庭 我、個人我、社會我，而因應衝突方式的改變，暴力逐漸消彌，半年後多元自我間維持平衡；導致個案 轉變主要來自於介入方案、金的特質，以及團體動力。最後討論與建議，係針對本土心理學家族主義與 面子丟失文化因素作用、與楊氏及陳氏的理論進行對話，而所發展的方案應能提供助人專業工作者新的 介入處遇方法。

 

This research analyzes the process of how the Multi-Selves Conflicts Coordination Theory and its intervention program facilitates a Taiwanese male perpetrator ""King"" who committed marital partner violence, violated the domestic law of Taiwan. He was referred from the district court to stop his physical violence, and to achieve the multi-selves balance and marital harmony. We modified Dr. Yang K.-S.’s Chinese Four Self Theory and Dr. Chen, P.-H.’s Self-Relation Coordination Counseling Model, Self-Coordination Theory and Process to develop the Multi-Selves Conflicts Coordination Theory (MSCCT) in the couple relationship counseling. The MSCCT is proposed to explain that the conflicts of the male violent perpetrator King’s multi-selves may cause marital conflicts, spoken violence, and even severe physical violence. King wanted to play both the role of fatherfamilistic self and the role of husband-relational self simultaneously. However, the conflicts of these two selves leaded to nervous, anxious, angry, hateful emotions, which may cause the marital conflicts and severe physical violence. The MSCCT intervention program focuses to inhibit the strong aspect of self and to facilitate the weak aspect of self to a balance condition. A qualitative research approach of case study method is conducted to analyze the client King’s crime documents, the content of protection command, the transcripts of 10 session’s group therapy videos, two individual interviews videos after the group therapy, one telephone follow-up interview after 6 months, and the research notes of the therapist. The results show that, during the therapeutic process, the client King was aware of his inner conflicts of multi-selves related to different relational roles gradually. The therapeutic aims were to inhibit his three strong selves on individualistic, familistic, and other-oriented aspects, and facilitate the weakest relational self. It was found that the client King increased his empathy toward his wife. The previous order of his multi-selves, which were familistic self, individualistic self, other-oriented self, and relational self, was changed to relational self, familistic self, individualistic self, and other-oriented self. The multi-selves of the client King became harmonious than before. The coping behavior toward marital conflicts of the client King changed, marital violence vanished, the multi-selves of the client King remained balance harmoniously even after 6 months of the multi-selves conflicts coordination intervention program. The main factors that may cause the change of the client King may come from the multi-selves conflicts coordination intervention program, the client King’s personal positive traits, and group therapeutic dynamics. The researcher discusses and suggests the ideas of indigenous concepts, such as the Chinese face and the familism that may play a vital role in the therapeutic process of reduced marital violence. The MSCCT and its intervention program, as a new prevention way for marital violence, provides to all different kinds of therapists, social workers, and other mental health professional workers. In the near future, the program may be used to different kinds of domestic violence, such as parent to child, man to old parents, siblings to each other, heterosexual intimate partners to each other, and same-sex intimate partners to each other. The intervention program may be used not only in the group therapy context but also in the individual therapy context. The linkage between the male violent perpetrator’s inner multi-selves conflicts and his marital violence behaviors is obvious in this case study. In the helping profession position, if the therapist can help the male violent perpetrator to achieve a balance condition of his inner multi-selves, martial conflicts and severe physical violence may be prevented, in turn leading to that all of the potential victims, such as women, child, and teens could be protected.