目睹父母婚姻暴力之成年子女心理經驗初探

The Mental Experience with Adults Who Witness Domestic Violence in Childhood

作者因長期從事家庭暴力保護服務，而與目睹父母婚姻暴力兒童及目睹父母婚姻暴力成年子女有接觸機會。從實務經驗中觀察目睹父母婚姻暴力子女於生理上、心理上受到相當程度壓抑及傷害，因而對目睹父母婚姻暴力子女心理經驗有了高度的關注。本研究欲探討目睹父母婚姻暴力成年子女的心理經驗，以及目睹父母婚姻暴力成年子女如何進行心理調適。本研究採取海德格詮釋的觀點以及深度的訪談方法，研究結果分析涵括故事主角的心理經驗歷程與研究問題的回應。討論則涵括三個：（一）故事與研究預設間的反觀及對照；（二）目睹暴力子女的多元面貌；（三）施暴的父親應該為暴力負責。研究者對堅持「暴力沒有任何藉口」之立場反思。

Working on the family violence protection service for a long period of time, the researcher has the chance to contact abused children and children who witnessed domestic violence. These practical experiences reflect the children who witness violence are damaged physically or mentally. How did these children witnessing domestic violence grow up? What are the mental experiences of these adults ? The research wants to explore how the domestic violence influences the children’s growth, and how these adults adapted mentally. The research adopts the standpoint of view and The Story Research. The research result embrace the mental experience process of the interviewees and the research response of problem. Discussion is divided into three parts: (A)Recounting the story and research fore-sight. (B)The interviewee is of various features.(C)The father should be responsible for the domestic violence. The researcher should introspect to the position of'the violence has no excuse' by persistence.