集團結婚之新人對參與簡易婚姻教育方案成效之研究

The Study for Efficacy of Brief Marital Education Among New Couples Registered the Mass Wedding

家庭理應是每人成長與因應壓力時的避風港，但國內家暴通報數屢創新高。面對此困境下筆者設計一簡易婚姻教育，其中包含情緒溝通、衝突溝通、性溝通、與休閒溝通之十五分鐘示範影片及含夫妻默契六題與溝通知能四題之夫妻同心小測驗。本研究以台東縣熱氣球婚禮18 對新人在經訓練之志工帶領下完成本簡易婚姻教育並實施前後測。結果顯示，當詢問參加簡易婚姻教育是否有幫助時，有73.5%之新人表示有幫助，而約23.5%覺得一半一半，沒人表示沒有幫助，且男生表示有幫助者更高於女生，各為82.4 %與61.5%。男女在各項成效上，.大半有所改善。男性在每個分數都有提高，而進步達顯著者有：情緒溝通(p=.028)、衝突溝通(p=.001)、性溝通(p=.014)、休閒溝通(p=.026)。女性分數進步達顯著者有：情緒溝通(p=.027)、性溝通(p=.003)、知強迫之性行為算違法(p=.047)。夫妻同心小測驗中之夫妻默契六題與夫妻相處知能四題之統計中顯示越了解對方的價值觀，受試者自陳的情緒溝通知能、衝突溝通知能、性愛互動知能及知能總分就越高，顯示雙方了解對方價值觀在婚姻關係課題是重要的。最後筆者建議未來國內可先開辦婚姻登記就應參加之簡易婚姻教育，如此才可能讓國人開始重視婚姻溝通與家庭溝通，家庭教育需求才會浮現與改善，也才能孕育出身心功能健全的子孫。

Family is supposed to be a save place for everyone to grow and cope outside stress. However, the report rate of domestic violence has been almost increasing during the past ten years. For dealing this serious problems, the authors develop a brief marital education program, which includes emotional, conflict, sexual, and recreational communication 15-minute role play video and a consensus test for both parties which includes 6 items on what is the favorite snack, recreation, and most value thing on both parties and 4 yes-no questions on whether 4 deal methods are right. Eighteen couples registered in a hot-air-balloon mass wedding in a county were recruited in this study for this brief marital education under the trained volunteers. Results showed that averagely 73.5% agreed it is helpful and 23.5% mentioned half-half. Males show higher on the helpful option than female (82.4% vs. 61.5%). After the session, more than half items showed significant progresses on both parties. The consensus test also showed the emotional, conflict, sexual and total communication scores and the significant positive relation with understanding sense of value each other, which might be most helpful for new couples to maintain good relationship. In the end, the authors suggested that central government should start to open the brief marital education for new couples before they register their marriage. By starting the related program, people might start to value the marital and familial communication, then the need for family education and counseling might start, and family function might become better overall and family might start be become a safe and warm place for all people.